For someone who felt like something was missing in my life, Nick was the perfect solution. He was kind, warm, and welcoming right from the start. He assured me that most of the things I was feeling and experiencing he also has been through before. He allowed me the space to open up and explore areas of my life I had previously chosen to avoid, totally judgement free. Life is lighter these days after what I have learned with Nick. I am so grateful for my time with Nick and highly recommend his services.
Nick has an incredible gift of helping you uncover things about yourself that are holding you back, and guides you with practical examples of how you can create meaningful and positive change. I am thankful to have worked with him!
I remember sitting in my psychologist’s room spending half my time trying to explain my life as a gay/bi/queer (who was I?) dad because they just simply didn’t get me. Surely there was another method to finding happiness. And then Nick pops up again on my Insta feed. He seemed funny, vulnerable, switched on, and like he’d understand me and my lifestyle. I didn’t need judgement, I needed direction.
Nick, with his beaming smiles and no bullshit questioning, took me in and over a few months turned me from an anxious and paralysed soul to a self aware and action focused man. He never told me what to do, he simply made me focus on how to be a better me. It wasn’t easy - he called me out, interrogated my answers, and opened wounds that needed to be addressed. But he did it with warmth, he made me feel heard, and he shared his own vulnerability to provide comfort.
I made the biggest life change - not because of his encouragement but because of his ability to show me how to build self confidence.
In our last session I cried - happiness tears.
Thanks Rob! Happy tears are the best... shows how important it is 💛
Andrew Coulthard2026.07.25
For a while I hadn’t been feeling like myself. My confidence was gone, I wasn’t performing at work, I was shrinking from social situations, and I was never happy with how my body looked. I wasn’t good enough. So how could I allow others to like me? So I don’t would sometimes push people away.
Then I took the Happy Homo quiz and I was like, “wow, this is so me”. Following that I did the initial intro with Nick and thought it was time do make a change.
Over the course of about 3 months, Nick gave me the tools to help remind myself of all the good things that are happening daily, and to reflect on them, no matter how big or small. Sometimes it was simply going for a walk to a quiet spot and reconnecting with friends via text, or it might have been inviting friends to my place, or going out to the club for fun instead of just to hook up.
I’ve noticed a positive shift in my life thanks to Nick and the Happy Homo project.
Definitely recommend to any guys out there who are maybe feeling like they’re in a rut, or missing their inner light.
Thanks Andrew! Glad we've introduced the good again 💛
Adrian Mitchell2026.07.24
Nick was a brilliant coach in a time of multiple changes in my life - he was engaged, down to earth, funny & ultimately kept me on track with realistic, specific and thoughtful goals. The sessions were well framed & even though I’d accidentally resolved my primary issue before we even started our sessions, it lead to many other genuine outcomes. Highly recommended, thank you so much Nick 🩵
Before I started coaching with Nick, I felt incredibly lost, like I was a passenger in my own life rather than the person behind the wheel. I had fallen into a pattern of people-pleasing, constantly prioritising everyone else’s needs and happiness above my own. Even when I knew what I wanted; guilt, shame or negative self-talk would quickly creep in and stop me from putting myself first. I’d been craving a change when I saw Nick’s profile on Instagram.
From our very first session, Nick created a space where I felt comfortable being honest about who I was, what I wanted, and what was holding me back. He has the ability to be incredibly warm and supportive while also challenging you in exactly the right ways. He gently but consistently pushed me beyond my comfort zone. Every session left me with something practical to work on, and the accountability kept the momentum going without ever feeling overwhelming.
The difference I feel now is not only noticeable to me but friends and those close to me. I feel more authentically myself than I have in a long time; more confident in my own voice, and more willing to step outside my comfort zone in pursuit of the life I want.
I genuinely can’t recommend Nick highly enough. At a point where I felt disconnected from myself, he helped me rediscover my confidence, my authenticity and my spark. If you’re looking for a coach who will support you, challenge you, and help you become a better version of yourself, Nick is exactly that person.
Working with Nick was truly a great experience. After unwillingly relocating back home from thousands of miles away, I felt stuck and lacked a sense of purpose in my life. It was not until I came across Nick's content on social media that I finally thought someone might have the tools I needed to break the cycle and live my life authentically. Our work together lasted roughly three weeks, and after every session, I felt how my perspectives and habits were changing. I managed to establish a routine, which I follow religiously and is not unrealistic, and even started receiving positive feedback from my colleagues and superiors at work. I am so happy with my experience that I've asked Nick to continue working with me so he can hold me accountable until I feel fully ready to live autonomously in alignment with my values.
Thanks David! When people are noticing, you know it's good 💛
Dr Alan Gallogly FRANZCP2026.06.30
I first sought Nick's help because I found myself repeatedly meeting great guys, only for things to fizzle out without understanding why. I wanted to better understand myself, my relationship patterns, and how I was approaching dating.
I initially completed Nick's introductory 3 month programme, which challenged me to look honestly at myself through regular sessions and practical homework. At the end, he offered to continue working with me on a longer-term basis if I felt it had been beneficial. Eighteen months later, I can honestly say it has been one of the best investments I've made in myself.
Nick has a rare ability to create a space that is warm, safe and completely free of judgement. He has a gentle, non-confrontational way of holding up a mirror that allows you to see yourself more clearly, while somehow getting straight to the heart of the issue. Some sessions have been incredibly raw and emotional, yet I have always felt understood, supported and respected. He also has a wonderful sense of humour, which helps keep things grounded when the work becomes difficult.
The changes I've experienced extend well beyond dating. I feel calmer, more emotionally grounded, more confident, and much kinder towards myself. He has helped me work through past emotional hurts, improve my self-esteem and self-worth, and given me practical tools that I use in everyday life. Most importantly, he has restored my belief that a healthy, loving relationship is possible.
I would recommend Nick without hesitation to anyone looking to better understand themselves, build healthier relationships, and create lasting positive change.
Thanks Alan! You're the proof that the longer you tend to that garden, the more it will grow 💛
Josh Turner2026.06.29
I by chance saw Nick on Instagram and thought, why not, what have I got to lose? That was a great decision and I'm very glad I took that leap.
Before meeting Nick the past few years had felt very monotonous, exhausting and like I had lost my sense of self. I knew that there were many goals I wanted to achieve and parts of myself I wanted to nurture, but the repetitive nature of daily life and feeling overwhelmed made it difficult for me to know where or how to begin.
During the program with Nick, I began to regain that sense of self and develop a sense of clarity I hadn't experienced in a long time. The ways in which things changed surprised me. I went in with a sense of we're going to sort out X, Y and Z, but as I went through the program I noticed other things coming up for me. Much of what I was doing in my daily life wasn't aligning with my core values, so that made me question how I wanted to move forward with my life.
Nick from the very start was exactly what I needed. With his patience, warmth and kindness, it felt easy to open up about the struggles I'd been having. Nick guided me in a way that was supportive, but kept me accountable and gave me some truths I needed to hear. The goals we set each week were achievable, with a few challenging ones thrown in there - just the right mix.
I now broadly feel more confident to take action in multiple areas of my life and keep moving myself towards my goals. Most importantly I'm reassessing everything through the lens of my own values again which is making those decisions and actions a lot easier to engage with. It's something I look forward to continuing working with Nick on in the future.
If you're feeling stuck, not quite yourself or just don't know where to begin, I'd highly recommend working with Nick. It's a leap I'm so glad I took.
As long as I can remember I have always felt alone. I could be in a room full of friends and still feel it. Through the years I learned to mask my loneliness behind performance. Performing for everyone and rarely letting people see the real me. My inner saboteur grew stronger and stronger. Adding layer after layer to my mask. After being laid off and moving across the country for work I found myself living the loneliest life I have ever experienced. I was in therapy. I was taking the medication. I was working out. But nothing was changing. And then on a random day I stumbled upon a random post of Nicks. It spoke to me. I felt seen. Enough was enough. Something had to give. So I marched, clicked the link, on over to the website. Took the quiz and booked a consultation. Going into the program I was nervous. I thought for sure I was going to be his toughest client. Am I going to be that one client that can’t be fixed? It was tough at first. I had become quite resourceful at keeping happiness just out of reach. There were some vulnerable days. One session in particular I brought out the big guns. The one memory I have held onto the longest. The perfect example of my loneliness, the crux of my low self worth. And Nick, in his Nick fashion, looked at me and said “Taj… you gotta let it go.” He said more than that, obviously. But that one sentence, this one instance, clicked. I shed my last tear and the weight lifted off my shoulders. In the following weeks colleagues at work started noticing a change in me. Constantly asking what my secret was and why I was so happy. My therapist released me saying her job was done. I was waking up with a smile. I got a new position at work. The only way to describe what I am feeling, it is like I am on a plane and that plane is taking off. The tray table is up. The seat belt is fastened and my seat is in the upright position. Where am I going? Who knows. But I do know this. I am worthy of all the goodness that is happening. I recognize all the good I have had in my life and am attracting to my life. And I am happy. And for this, Nick… I say thank you. 💙😁
Thanks Taj! It's incredible how much you've turned it around 💛
Karl Uhrich2026.06.03
I started working with Nick last year during a time of change and crisis. I had left a tough work role which had left me feeling spent and empty. I was stuck in the past and anxious about the future. I was being held back by old habits and patterns that I couldn’t shake.
Nick described himself as a PT for the mind, and for your life. I had already restarted at the gym to get fit again and liked the analogy. Maybe this is just what I needed!
We worked together on goals and going deeper into my values - and more importantly trying to hammer away at old patterns and build something new.
Nick was just what I needed - he held me to account and got me out of my head, and actively working towards a better more fulfilling life.
I’ve now ‘graduated’ and thanks to Nick, I feel mentally stronger, and more connected to my purpose. I’m also amazed that it’s possible to break lifelong pattens and create something new with the right support. I highly recommend Nick for any homo who might be feeling a bit lost and wanting to squeeze the very best out of life.
Thanks Karl! Two tall glasses of fresh life juice please 💛
Kurt Pelletier2026.05.26
This has been one of the life changing experience! Couldn’t be happier in life without the help of Nick! I felt at ease since the first meeting! Made it really easy to share my challenges and what to work on!
Thanks Kurt! Couldn't be happier that you trusted me to help 💛
Ianis Albac2026.05.21
I started seeing Nick because I felt stuck in some areas of my life and I could see a growing disconnection between me and the rest of society/community. We sometimes do things because we're used to them or because of the way we're thinking, and I started to lose myself in everything I was telling myself.
Nick helped me realise that I’m able to step out of my comfort zone, that I’m capable of doing the things I want to do, and, even worse, that I’m capable of doing the things I don’t want to do and that scare me… It definitely helped me identify some patterns and remember my frequency and what I wanted for myself.
Since the coaching, I realise how some of my attitudes and ways of thinking have changed, and I feel like I’m reclaiming the confidence I may have lost along the way. I feel more comfortable, and some small habits we practised together are now automatisms I sometimes apply without realising it, which feels like a win every time it happens.
Thanks Ianis! We absolutely love an attitude change 💛
Michael Lever2026.05.20
I came across Nick through his posts on Instagram. I found them really interesting and often felt like they were speaking directly to me. At the time, I was caught up in the monotony of life and hiding parts of myself.
Working with Nick helped me become more open, reconnect with the things I love, and feel more fulfilled.
Nick is incredibly easy to talk to, and the way he shares his own experiences makes him very relatable. He quickly created a safe space where I felt comfortable talking about anything, like talking to a friend, but one who also holds you accountable.
I can’t thank Nick enough for helping me discover more about myself and giving me the tools to confidently step into the next chapter of my life. I strongly believe everyone should invest in themselves, and I would absolutely recommend Nick to anyone who will listen.
Thanks Michael! Overjoyed you chose to invest in yourself 💛
Chris Burnett2026.05.19
Until I started working with Nick, never before have I felt more in control of my life and my mindset! I feel more equipped than ever to be able to handle life’s rollercoaster and challenges. If you want a coach that will listen and make you feel heard without any judgement, then Nick is your guy. I’m very appreciative of all his support and guidance! (He’s a human magic black 8 ball that always seems to spit out the right advice - and who doesn’t want one of those in their life!)
Thanks Justin! Breakthroughs are the name of the game here 💛
Nicholas Brown2026.05.13
Working with Nick has been one of the most valuable experiences of my life. I approached him at a time when I was feeling lost, confused, stuck, knowing what my goals were but not how to execute them.
Nick was able to see through all the walls I had put up and find a way through my mental maze. He was incredibly open, professional, understanding and kind. He is able to see where a viewpoint is coming from, and scrutinize it in such a way that challenges it appropriately and fairly.
Thanks to Nick's help, I'm now more confident in the future and what it holds. I'm excited to see what is next for me. I cannot recommend Nick enough for the services he advertises and provides.
Before I first met with Nick, I was so lost and confused with myself (and in the closet). I was always so negative towards myself with my thoughts and my actions, and ultimately didn’t really like myself. I always would dream that things would just someday be better but never actually acted on it.
Then I saw an ad for the Happy Human Project on Instagram and figured I might as well do the free consultation and see if I liked Nick and the program itself. And right away, Nick was so outgoing and convivial and we made a plan of what going forward with the program would look like, and I jumped right in.
Working with Nick was so easy. He always had a clear plan and structure and we would always co-create my weekly goals together; sometimes he’d throw in a wild one though, but always in good faith. And most importantly, he held me accountable through the whole process, because although my motivation might’ve ebbed and flowed, he’d always be there to get me right back on track.
After working with Nick, I can confidently say that I know who I am and most importantly, I like who I am. And deciding to work with Nick might just be one of the best decisions I have ever made. I truly cannot recommend him enough.
I can’t recommend Happy Human Project (and Nick!) enough.
Moving to a new country while figuring out your identity as a gay man is… a lot. I was stuck in this mindset of needing to be perfect before I could really enjoy life — which, spoiler alert, is exhausting and not very fun.
Working 1:1 with Nick over a few months completely shifted that for me. He creates such a safe space to talk about everything — the past, the messy stuff, the things you don’t always say out loud — and helps you actually work through it instead of just sitting in it.
What I loved most is how he helps you reframe your thinking. Instead of spiralling on what’s “wrong,” you start recognising what’s already good. It sounds simple, but it’s powerful.
Nick is one of the kindest, most supportive people you’ll meet, but he also keeps you accountable and pushes you when needed. He’s there through the highs and lows, which makes it feel like a real journey, not just a few sessions.
If you’re a gay man dealing with identity, relationships, or just feeling stuck — this is 100% worth it. Think: less overthinking, more living your best life.
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