eHarmony Reviews

Claira Wilson 2025.07.04

     

eHarmony is not a good dating website Please read this review before using eHarmony. The ‘Basic Membership’ offered will not let you reply to message or view images; this is hidden behind a very expensive pay wall. This pay wall is either a 6 or 12 month rolling contract which they will not let you leave even if you have good reasons for doing so. The filters on the website do not work. While I was using it, despite asking for matches only in Scotland, the majority were coming from England. There were many bots, all with vague profiles and copy paste dialog. Many did not respond to messages. To summarise, the website is a waste of time and money, run by people without scruples, only interested in trapping you in an expensive contract with little to no chance of making a match with somebody. Please do not use.

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Sarah Sali 2025.04.26

     

Terrible! Terrible! Barely any members to match with! I had no choice but to sign up to see images and once I joined which is 6 months mind you, so they are going to take my money for 6 months. Big mistake. I emailed them my concerns and asked them to void my contract as there are barely any people to match with and they flat out refused! Clearly don't care about their customers. DO NOT JOIN! Id EHX2C622

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Mark C. 2025.02.22

     

Verified

The worst dating site I've ever experienced! I wasted $485 on this site. I still have 8-months of service available to me and I'm deleting my account. Ever profile I've interacted with is a fake profile. There is too much fraud on this site. Most of the contacts are well over 100 miles from me. Do yourself a favor and try something else!

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Arthur B. 2025.02.15

     

Verified

Extremely deceptive practices They told me I was paying $11.99 at 50% off and full price every month after that… they took $600 from my credit card. I can not afford this! Is there any way to get my money back?!?!?

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Stephanie B. 2025.01.29

     

Verified

Worst dating site ever suck of time and money! I went through all of my matches within one hour of being on this app. The app suggested that I change my preferences, which is absolutely not an option after filling out the very detailed and time-consuming questionnaire that's what I spent my money on for them to find my perfect match not for me to have to change my preferences. I emailed eHarmony the day. I joined and asked them to refund my money based on the fact that there were no suitable matches, they refused worst site ever don't waste your money.

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Jes T. 2025.01.29

     

Verified

Horrible! Unfortunately if I could leave 0 stars I would! After reading on their terms and conditions that you would be issued a full refund if you cancelled within 14 days and did not use the app, I tried to cancel after 24 hours due to financial reasons. I was then charged £65 for "using" the services. I did not use the services at all, instead received an email from them, that they sent with a 'detailed psychological report' (a load of tosh if I'm honest). This is what they charged me for, and apparently this was me "using the app". Terms and conditions completely contradicts what they do. So many loop holes to get money out of you. Really wouldn't recommend. Feels horrible to have a multi million dollar company steal money from you.

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tony F. 2025.01.27

     

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Scam site Worst dating site ever. First only had 7 people in my area. 7 whole people and im in illnois and missouri area. So had look everywhere. Any message i sent to a woman a day later they would send email telling me they deleted there profile. I didnt get one message and any i got back from sending they deleted them. Wouldnt give me a refund.people trust me stay away from this dating site. Dont listen so called positive reviews. If i could give it a minus rating I would. Please stay away.Its a scam

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Jean B. 2025.01.22

     

Verified

Zero stars I did my best to give eHarmony a chance after they refused my request for a refund—twice. I completely opened my preferences. No eliminations. Welcome all. I have been on two other dating sites before with far better results. Lots of likes, a reasonable amount of dates, and some that lasted several dates. Not true of this one. The deal breaker is that virtually all candidates are more than 150 miles from me. Too many have no profile photo, and no, I'm not going to ask for one because a man who can't or won't post a photo has an irredeemable flaw. Plus that's not my job. It's eHarmony's responsibility. I've had very few profile views, and that's not because I'm a hag. On their competitors' sites I have attracted a lot of attention- and not eHarmony's inappropriate likes from 25 year olds. I won't even go into the poor quality of available matches. This site has been a huge disappointment and a waste of my time as well as my money. I gave them an opportunity to show that I'm wrong and I'm not. EHarmony is tantamount to a scam in that it's so poorly executed and managed. Today I asked again for them to cancel this disgrace of a membership and any remaining fees. My expectations are low, in line with my experience thus far.

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Steve M. 2025.01.20

     

Verified

Nothing happening It's been a month in no hits. I don't believe there's any point in this. It was a waste of money and I'm sorry I did it. Beware beware beware

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Matthew G. 2025.01.20

     

Verified

Stay away I signed up for basic to see matches. It kept pushing to fill out everything and even pick a plan and ask for card info. Whole time I'm assuming they allow you to pick matches and decide to not move forward. I had 2 matches decided not to move forward and said too bad you picked a premium plan and paid. I had no intention of mo if forward till I saw my matches as they advertise and they just didn't care. Total scam.

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Cyn.g.g 2025.01.17

     

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Slow app This app is so slow, won’t let you open messages until you get out of the app and completely re-open it and then it lets you open messages. Won’t let you remove messages and delete them if you don’t want to continue the conversation with your match. It’s quite annoying

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Yipdogrob 2025.01.16

     

Verified

What happened? Several years ago this was a great app! Now it is riddled with fake profiles!

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Rena_Nina14 2025.01.16

     

Verified

SCAM Don’t make the same mistake I did. You pay an insane about of money and when you realize it’s a terrible platform you can’t cancel. They say you can “cancel membership” but that’s only for renewal the will continue to take your money -you can “delete” your account is your only option- so while you don’t have access to your account they continue to collect your money on services they are not providing.

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Antihero813 2025.01.16

     

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Beware Ratio of 4:1 scam artists. I report several per day. Some are legit people most are attempting to pull you from the app to other untraceable apps like signal. No shame in their game either. Be very careful and vet them enormously. And if it’s too good to be true, they are likely a scam artist.

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marianad3007 2025.01.16

     

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Just DONT!!! Dont waste time and money.

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AlamedaDude 2025.01.16

     

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Fake accounts galore beware! I was recommended to eharmony from a friend who was on it years again and claimed it was the realest site because it was the most expensive to subscribe to. I signed up, paid the high amount for 3 months, and got scammed one after the next with fake accounts. You are given only a limited number of “unlocks” with your subscription per month and when a fake account contacts you and shows interest you must use and unlock to connect and chat. I would unlock a chat then eharmony would remove the fake account and send me an email telling me they did so but not give me back and credits for my used unlocks. I wrote to email customer care and they ignored me. I highly recommend avoiding this money trap called eharmony. Full of scammers, super expensive, and customer service could care less to even respond much less do the right thing.

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Rand4974 2025.01.15

     

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Doesn’t make sense You say you are here to match people, but you don’t even believe in your product. Your shortest option for paid use is 6 months and for the best monthly rate we have to pay for two YEARS? I guess you just want people to perpetually date and not pair off.

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QBR2001 2025.01.15

     

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Eharmony is the bane of my existence You’re not allowed to see photos unless you pay and when you do pay, I takes a year worth of your money instead of just billing me for the month. And then when I’m trying to delete my account, I can’t because I have to wait till my subscription ends in a year. I asked for a refund so hopefully they’ll give me one and delete my account. F this app.

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Why pay the money??? 2025.01.13

     

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Don’t waste your money! You see the commercials and you pay the EXORBITANT amount of money and it’s all lies! The only 3 women who have actually messaged me are foreign who as you to use the “telegram” app and then ask you, “Do you AI trade or trade with BTC?!” I am extremely dissatisfied and expected better!

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Jewman96 2025.01.13

     

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Not this app If you are looking for something real, try something else. A lot of spam messages and just spam profiles. Some of them don’t even have a profile picture!

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