Adult Friend Finder

Adult Friend Finder Reviews

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1.8
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Myron W.
Myron W.
2023.11.21
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Rip off I bought a 3 month membership. I was not happy with it, I got to chat with a few people, which was fun. I found no one I wanted to meet, or to have cyber with. With about three weeks left on my membership, I wrote on my profile, I was no longer willing to pay for the membership. Somehow,,,, it was changed to " I am willing to pay for sex" Crooked Moderators? Who knows. I was send a notice to change my profile. I was working at the time it came I received a notice I was banned for soliciting an hour later. I was still working. I tried to call customer support and they told me my profile said "I was willing to pay for sex" There is no appeal, I asked if I could see what it said on my profile and was told I would need a court order to see it. It's no big deal, as I spent my time avoiding the bots and scammers when I was there. It might be an alright site for a young person, I am older, I did talk to some nice people. However, most the sex stuff seemed to be gay orientated, not my cup of tea. As you can see by the letters they can't even keep straight what they claim I did
Gerald G.
Gerald G.
2023.11.06
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Adult friend finder is a joke All of their AIs cannot answer simple yes or no questions do not respond for at least a week or two threatening to illegally sue you if you try to cancel your credit card stay away from this site. Complete joke.
Kar Y.
Kar Y.
2023.10.28
Verified
The site is a scam. The site is a scam. They will close your account for reasons such as "violation of terms of use" and never send an email with the terms of use so you can find out what you did that was wrong. They will send notification from interested members to your email, but no emails to tell you that your account was closed or why. They do not refund your money either. If you pay $245 for a year membership, they will not give it back. My account was closed while it was being reviewed for approval. I got only three days of limited use before they closed it and took my money. The phone support is rude and unhelpful. They claim you can not get information about your account without a court order. So, you have no recourse to complain about their predatory policies.
Chris g.
Chris g.
2023.10.17
Verified
Just another scam page Despite seeing a few web pages that claim this is as legit as it gets, it's still a poor page. The layout is fine and manageable. I had to call customer service to fix an email issue that was my fault and they took care of it quickly. Once I had a profile set up, the problems started. I have received 50 messages the first day, 49 from a woman probably well out of my league claiming they are "in my area for work" and of course they need sex. I tried to hang on for a few days because I did see some promising profiles but they were old. It's not worth the trouble and definitely not worth the money.
Jim P.
Jim P.
2023.09.22
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Scammer city The girl claims to be in your area In my case miami Only to find out she was only visiting a few weeks and was leaving the day she made contact. Wants to stay connected when she gets home In my case Alabama 2 times and australi. Then needs money for airfare to meet. You guessed it PayPal The last one was pearl walker
George K.
George K.
2023.09.20
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Con artists preying on your money If you want a real thing J4Luv.com indeed works better because they have real women (as opposed to AFF). AFF is very scammy. It is not about anything real, it's just fantasy. Most of the profiles are con artists preying on your money. They are very creative about different tricks and methods for conning you out of your bucks. The only good thing about AFF is that you can see a lot of hot spread-legged photos. Although you can see bunch of hotter stuff on the net for free. You can't meet anyone. So AFF can fit you only if you want to see some hot pics, but please apply your common sense before you decide to pay for this!
Riki S.
Riki S.
2023.09.03
Verified
Fraudulent web site replete with fake profiles and scammers The vast majority of profiles are fake...scammers trying to get details for id theft, or get you off platform and send you phishing links or invitations to dubious websites. In addition to no vetting process for profiles, I was ironically suddenly locked out of site two thirds of way through my subscription period, and when I wrote to help desk to get help, after numerous emails back and forth was told I had violated their terms of use and my account was being deleted with no refund, no explanation or proof of what terms of use had been violated, and no terms of recourse offered. Shameful extortionist racket. Will see if Australian consumer protection offices such as the dept of fair trading have any advice on taking on a US based corporate scam. In the meantime suggest Red Hot Pie ( also has fake profiles, but fewer, and there is recourse because local, a much better option.
Tommy H.
Tommy H.
2023.08.26
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Adult friend finder has got to be a scam. What a joke. The longer I'm on the app the worse it becomes bots fake profiles. This is got to be a scam. It needs to be stopped immediately. Should have a class action suit with three phones of all cost associated with being a member and additional fines for what should be criminal that is going on with accessing the site.
Cris R.
Cris R.
2023.08.20
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Honest Review I have been on AdultFriendFinder(AFF) for over 6 months now, and I haven't met one single person in real life. Why? Because profiles on AFF are (For the most part) one of the following: 1. Bots (50%) - These are the profiles with only one picture. These profiles are artificially generated by AFF in order to claim they have so many subscribers. The people on those profiles don't exist. 2. Scammers (20%) - These are the profiles with 2 or 3 low quality pics or pictures with model-looking women. *They will try to get you to chat with them via Google Chat or Telegram. Why? Because they want to get your email. *When you ask them for their Kik name, they will always say they don't use Kik and refer you back to using Google Chat or Telegram. *If they give you their actual phone number, you will notice that the area code is from another state. When you try calling them, they will never pickup and make all sorts of excuses. You will never hear their voice, nor will they ever face-time with you. *If you give them your phone number, they will start texting you to get other personal information such as your address, age, full-name, the type car you drive, etc. *Once they have your full name, email and phone number, they will break into your email account, try to find your credentials to get to your bank accounts, and commit identity theft. Thus, never give your real name, phone number or email to anyone on this site, or any other confidential information. 3. Streamers (10%) - These are the girls with lots of professionally made pics and videos. They will never meet you in real life. They just want you to subscribe to their only-fans website for a monthly fee. 4. Exhibitionists (10%) - They are real women who just want their naughty videos and pics to be shown publicly. They use AFF as an alternative to my-only-fans channel to feed their ego. They don't want to meet anyone in real life. Now comes the real danger to this site: 5. Psychopaths (5%) - These are mentally-ill, mean-spirited individuals, who actually want to meet up with you in real life to do some type of physical harm to you. Scenario 1: They will use the actual girl in the pics as bait. She will try to get you to meet her (Typically on the second or third date) in a far-off location outside the city limits where your phone won't have signal. Yes, she and her partners are serial killers. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity? Scenario 2: The girl in the pic, will ask you to meet in complete darkness at a random house (no talking allowed, no cellphone allowed). As you enter the house, she will blindfold you so you won't see her face. She will then take you to her bedroom, get you naked, and tie you up to the bed. Once you are completely defenseless and vulnerable, she will leave. 20 or 30 minutes later, the cops will show up and you will be charged with property trespass, burglary, or homicide. Yes, it's a total set-up and you are their stupid pray. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity? Scenario 3: The girl in the pic is not really who she says she is. Again, she will ask you to meet in complete darkness at a random house (no talking allowed, no cellphone allowed). As you enter the house, she will blindfold or just take you to the bedroom in complete darkness, so you won't see what she actually looks like. In the bedroom, she will get you naked and do oral to you. She won't allow you to talk or touch her for good 45 minutes. At some point, sadly you will learn that she is not a girl, it's a transexual or just a guy cross-dressed that has been sucking your balls. This is called "sexual assault". When you confront him, the guy can turn really violent. Don't fall for it. Why is AdultFriendFinder a platform that supports criminal activity? These are just 3 scenarios of many possibilities. 6. Grannies (5%) - These are real women (Between 58 and 85) who actually want to meet up with you in real life to have sex. In Summary: If what you want is to talk to Bots (50%), have Scammers (20%) break into you bank account or steal your identity, subscribe to a Streamer's (10%) only-fans website, watch the videos or pics of Exhibitionist (10%), be a victim (be murdered, be sexually assaulted or be charged with someone else's crime) of a sick Psychopath (5%), or you just want to have sex with old Grannies (5%); then, Adult Friend Finder is definitely for you. You are probably wondering, well, why does Adult Friend have so many positive reviews? Because many of those "positive" reviews are artificially generated by AdultFriendFinder, otherwise they would be out of business. Disclaimer: This is an honest review from a real live breathing person. Nobody (institution or private individual) is paying me to write this review. Nor am I getting any benefits (such as products or services) from anyone to write this review. This review is based on what I have learned from my interactions with the people behind the profiles at AdultFriendFinder over the course of the past 6 months.
Peter P.
Peter P.
2023.08.17
Verified
Fake, fake, fake scammers. They lure you in with things like pics and live chat which never work. Then they log you out remotely and when you try to use your password to reenter they reject it. They then reject the code they themselves emailed you. If you complain enough, they remotely log you back in again but it only lasts awhile. When you try complaining they suggest you upgrade to GOLD service. It's a scam. The escorts are not even real. Avoid at all costs!
Olivia H.
Olivia H.
2023.08.12
Verified
They Deleted My Account Twice I've been on AFF for a few years and recently they just deleted my page.They accused me of solicitation but when I asked them for the proof they are going to tell me to get a court order to get the information. WHATEVER YOU DO... DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT JOIN AFF.
david C.
david C.
2023.08.06
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Swingers and Swindlers I spent a month on AFF and spent alot of time on the site. The following is my experience. I was searching and texting with female profiles. 30% are hard core swingers looking for the same with who I had no lnteraction with. I texted and chatted with approximate 25 other female profiles. 2 were hookers, 1 ran her own escort service. The remainder were scammers and swindlers for money. I texted and then communicated with all of them off the site and the common theme in all was hooking me for money. I also noticed about week three that it appeared that the same person was behind 4 or 5 profiles. They were written exactly the same with a different photo on each. Also of note, the conversation pattern was the same but wasnt a bot. With two of the scammers I was able to turn it around and broke through the BS narrative with a two scammers and actually convinced them to chat on snap. No surprise they weren't the women in the photo. One was a Vietnamese woman, the other Russian. Both could hardly speak english. I also spoke off site with another woman who I would award an oscar to for best con artist performance. In most cases they were relentless in begging me for money. It was worse than some eastern european gypsies Ive encountered. I chatted with another beautiful picture and we agreed to speak on the phone. Turned out to be a Filipino tranny (omg). I also tried out the live model video/chat. The models were for the most part incredibly beautiful. However, the cost of the shows are truly a rip-off. If your not very very careful, you can run up $600 in 20 minutes watching a girl put on a live show. I would call it malicious extortion. My card was double charged. Ok, there you have it, my experience on AFF. In retrospect, a complete an utter waste of time and money. Can I get a refund? I gave the site 2 stars because the of the swinger side of the site. If your a swinger, give it a try, you might hook up with someone, idk. Otherwise, dont waste your time on AFF. Gents, your better off spending a couple hours and a couple hundred dollars at your local strip club. You will at least get something in return for your money. BTW, sitejabber weighs the credibility of my comments with attached evidence or proof of purchase. Well, unless you want an official police report, you have to take my word for it. Guys, just go to the titty bar.
Alex g.
Alex g.
2023.07.30
Verified
AdultFriendFinder is a poor option at best and potentially a scam. My partner and I signed up for an account and paid for a month of the gold membership. We were able to make an account and fill out our profile despite the slow website and somewhat inconvenient UI. We used it for a few hours before we encountered an issue where we could not use their Instant Messenger to chat with other users. We assumed it was just a glitch, as the IM had been buggy before. So, we logged out and attempted to log back in. We were then greeted with a message saying our login information did not match their records. I attempted to change our password and was told the email used for our account was invalid. Very confused, we contacted customer support. After waiting a while in the queue, we spoke to an agent. After taking our username, the agent told us their "department" could not help and closed the chat immediately after telling us to try tomorrow during regular business hours. The next day, during the morning, we contacted customer support. After giving our information, we were told our account had been deactivated. We were then transferred to "risk management." After a 30 minute wait, we were told again that our account had been deactivated. They did not tell us why, but only gave us a clearly pre-written response saying we needed to send our driver's licenses to their email in order for our account to be reactivated. When we asked why, they rudely closed the chat. This is our full experience with AFF. When it did work, the site is buggier and lower quality than others like it. Please take our experience into consideration when looking to use AFF. We'd suggest going elsewhere.
Geongogo I.
Geongogo I.
2023.07.28
Verified
Scam alert beware! Scam alert this website is and will not take any responsibility for fraudulent scammers that are disguising themselves as legitimate dates, through the test that I have taken to determine fraud or scam has been 100% verified, not everyone on this site is a scammer or is fraudulent but there are individuals that will scam you and pretend they're in sheep's clothing through my testing I discovered that this is scam alert, till the powers that be Rectify or fix the problem the scammers will be praying on you.
Terry W.
Terry W.
2023.07.24
Verified
Trick you to pay more than add says Add said 22.00 cad get bill 59.38 one month, phoned helpline would not tell me why was told to send them an email, 99.9 messages and likes come from the U.S. no doubt fake for why would they not be loco? Try changing user name they wanted another 22.50 probably U.S. doesn't say.BEWARE not what it seems.
Anony M.
Anony M.
2023.06.08
Verified
Don't bother.. Used for 1 day, tried to log in again a couple days later and couldn't, contacted support. Was told I'd been reported for "abuse", had engaged in "inappropriate" behavior which violated the Terms of Use, and had been permanently banned... when all I did was talk to a few people and use the sites other built in features? Even set up ID verification and was already thinking about purchasing membership eventually. Good thing I didn't I would have been out the money! Carefully read through ToU again and didn't see anything I "violated" asked support what I had done that supposedly violated ToU and conveniently got no response to the question, was just told account would stay banned. Best guess is either a completely random ban, or someone made up a bs report/claim because they felt entitled to my body/time and were offended that I didn't reply, meet up, or send pics whenever they wanted or wasn't online 24/7 to answer their every beck and call. Would give 0/5 if I could. Don't bother wasting time on the site, and definitely DO NOT BUY MEMBERSHIP!
sss s.
sss s.
2023.06.05
Verified
Fraud. Started taking money without authorisation even when I was offline. Reporting them to the police. Blocked me in chats when I tried to resolve the problem. Enough is enough.
Devon C.
Devon C.
2023.05.26
Verified
Been on this site for a while now. Buyer beware! Nothing but scam I was tricked into believing that benaughty.com and adultfriendfinder are two different sites. Just so you know, they're both run by the same sites. Complete scams, both of them. Nothing but bots and tranny's. These sites will have bots text you and say hey whats up, want to chat? Then you never hear from them again. They don't answer you either. So I signed up for a Gold membership. After a week, it says Gold is only a free account, even though I paid $160.00 for it. They then say, "sign up for platinum if you want the real deal." Total scam! So I finally thought I was talking with legit people and after 30 minutes of chat, all of a sudden they deactivate their accounts. ALL OF THEM! I spoke to about 6 people. They all deactivated their accounts halfway through chatting with them, and blocked me. Now I'm a model, so I'm not bad looking. So you can see I'm not making this up. I've had better luck at dive bars. And the only legit people who will text you are trans sexuals. And they claim to be real women. I reported them and adultfriendfinder will say, "you don't have the proof." Oh well, isn't the mustache enough proof? Or their hairy chest? Trust me, avoid this site at all costs...Good advice...
William B.
William B.
2023.05.13
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Worst site Site is filled with fake accounts. 90% people are not who they say they are. Website itself also sucked and God forbid you say it, they will cancel your account with zero refund
se z.
se z.
2023.05.08
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Full of dead profiles, bots and scammers The site is pathetic. I am sure you would have better luck in a sleazy bar AND it might be cheaper. %75+ of the profiles are dead profiles. Lots of bots and scammers